1. Whomsoever you encounter is the right one.
無論你遇見誰，他都是對的人。
This means that no one comes into our life by chance. Everyone who is around us, anyone with whom we interact, represents something, whether to teach us something or to help us improve a current situation.
這意味，沒有人是因為偶然進入我們的生命。每個在我們周圍，和我們有互動的人，都代表一些事。也許要教會我們什麼，也許要協助我們改善眼前的一個情況。
2. Whatever happened is the only thing that could have happened.
無論發生什麼事，那都是唯一會發生的事。
Nothing, absolutely nothing of that which we experienced could have been any other way. Not even in the least important detail. There is no “If only I had done that differently…, then it would have been different…”. No. What happened is the only thing that could have taken place and must have taken place for us to learn our lesson in order to move forward. Every single situation in life which we encounter is absolutely perfect, even when it defies our understanding and our ego.
我們所經歷的事，不可能，絕不可能以其他的方式發生，即便是最不重要的細節也不 會。並不存在「要是我當時做法不一樣…那麼結果就會不一樣。」。無論發生什麼事，那都是唯一會發生的，而且一定要那樣發生，才能讓我們學到經驗，以便繼續 前進。生命中，我們經驗的每一種情境都是絕對完美的，即便它不符我們的理解與自尊。
3. Each moment in which something begins is the right moment.
不管事情開始於哪個時刻，都是對的時刻。
Everything begins at exactly the right moment, neither earlier nor later. When we are ready for it, for that something new in our life, it is there, ready to begin.
每一件事都正好是在對的時刻開始的，不早也不晚。當我們準備好，準備經歷生命中的新奇時刻，它就在哪裡，隨時準備開始。
4. What is over, is over.
已經結束的，已經結束了。
It is that simple. When something in our life ends, it helps our evolution. That is why, enriched by the recent experience, it is better to let go and move on.
這是如此簡單。當生命中有些事情結束了，它會幫助我們進化。這是為什麼，要完整享受已然發生的事，最好是放下並持續前進。你坐在這裡，讀著這些文字，我相信這絕非巧合。
I think it is no coincidence that you’re here reading this. If these words strike a chord, it’s because you meet the requirements and understand that not one single snowflake falls accidentally in the wrong place！
如果這些文字觸動你的心弦，那是因為你的因緣成熟，你明白沒有任何一片雪花會因為意外落在錯的地方。善待自己，愛你的存在，讓自己快樂。
source: youkai.pixnet.net
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１ 花無錯開， 緣無錯時。
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